The answer
It is good that you are taking the time to examine and evaluate your personal attitude and feelings. Children and youth are quick to notice and interpret the facial expressions, intonation of voice, sarcasm, body language, and demeanor of their parents and teachers. Knowing their sensitivity to your reactions should be a warning call for you to release your emotions in a positive way. Children are like sponges, absorbing whatever is before them. This is very dangerous if they are surrounded by negativity. Children and youth need to be advised to refrain from judging their priests and servants, even when they make mistakes. Moses the prophet made some mistakes which God dealt with him personally, but God punished his sister Miriam the prophetess and his brother Aaron the priest for speaking negatively about him. If and when you find yourself mocking another individual, try to stop yourself immediately and apologize to whoever may have heard your misspoken words. As soon as you have the opportunity, confess this sin to your confession father. Lead by example in helping your children to grow in love and see the good in everyone. Read and contemplate on the holy epistle of St. James who teaches us that faith and deeds must work together and mirror each other in the true believer. "And above all things have fervent love for one another, for 'love will cover a multitude of sins.'" (1 Peter 4:10).
Answered by His Eminence Metropolitan Youssef (opens in a new tab)