The answer
1- I must like them and they must like me, naturally, and through the grace of God.
2- I must feel relaxed with them, and not be in a state of panic.
3- I must be decisive with them when they are disruptive in prayers & Bible readings.
4- Patience - keep the example of Jacob in mind; don’t look at his instability now, but look towards what he will be like in the future.
5- Love is the most impressive thing of all.
H.G. Bishop Moussa